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  1. Middle River Celebrates New Church
    The Carlisle Citizen  
    August 15, 2002 

  2. New Millenium brings new building for Middle River Friends Church  by Rob Daniel
    The Record-Herald and Indianola Tribune
    April 10, 2002

  3. Annual Report to the Friends Iowa Yearly Meeting      by Ministry and Counsel
    October 2001

  4. Country church finds new home    by Amanda Pierre
    Des Moines Register Around Town
    October 11, 2000

  5. Middle River Donates to Dollars for Scholars
    The Carlisle Citizen
    November 2, 2000

  6. MIDDLE RIVER CATCHES FILE      by Roy Gongwer
    The Iowa Friend

  7. Article by Jacque Wilbur
    Iowa Association of Legal Assistants Newsletter

 



Middle River Celebrates New Church

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    It is time to CELEBRATE!  Middle River Friends invites the community to join us in a Community Welcoming Worship Service and Open House to
celebrate the Grand Opening of our NEW building, located at 407 S-23 Highway (Palmyra Road).  On Sunday, August 18th at 10:30 a.m. our Worship Service
begins, followed at 12 noon with a potluck dinner.  At 1:30 p.m. the Open house and tours begin and run through 3:30 p.m.  This day we will celebrate
the beginning of a new chapter for Middle River Friends Church.  This day we will also celebrate for the people who will be the Future Generations of
the church of Middle River Friends. 
    Four and one-half years ago a building committee was formed to explore remodeling ideas at the location where MRF has been for almost 100 years,
1792 Cleveland St.  It was soon discovered that the land size there was not going to meet the growing demands of a country church.  With the donation
of 2 1/2 acres by brother and sister, Dwight and Jeanette Gibbons, the relocation of Middle River Friends to 407 S-23 Highway began.
    Small group meetings were held in parishioners homes for ideas on what our new home should look like and what it should be capable of providing. 
Three main themes were discussed at all these meetings:
    1.  The sanctuary should have the look and feel of an old style country church inside and out, and be able to seat 250 comfortably.
    2.  The fellowship hall should accommodate large funeral and wedding events.
    3.  Construct adequate classrooms to accommodate all age groups. 
    With a creative design by Laugerman Architects and the building expertise of Tyler Construction Services, the construction of our new home began. 
Ground breaking ceremonies were held on October 8, 2000 and construction began in June 2001.
    The building committee, within its first few meetings, adopted the following verse from Psalms 78:4. "We will not hide them from their children; we will tell
the next generation of the praiseworthy deeds of the Lord.  His Power and the Wonders He has done."  The building committee knew it was their job to build a
place for Future Generations to hear of these deeds of the Lord.
    Come, celebrate with us at the place the Lord has provided for Middle River Friends Church on Sunday, August 18th.  Hope to see you there!


New Millenium brings new building for Middle River Friends Church

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     A long-time rural Carlisle church will soon be moving into a new home.

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iddle River Evangelical Friends Church has been in its location at 1792 Cleveland St. since its founding in 1851, with its current building in place
since 1890.  However, it is tentatively scheduled to move this summer to a new, larger building on S23 Highway a mile away.

     The new buidling will allow the church to host one Sunday morning service again, after having to move to two services to accommodate larger
crowds in its 80-seat sanctuary.  Les Ferguson of the church's building committee said "We had put on two additions."

     Dan Ritchie, also a member of the church's building committee, said the church's recent Palm Sunday service had 166 people show up.  The crowd
was squeezed into various areas of the sanctuary, including spaces of the stage.  "We don't want to ever seat that many again," he said.

     Ritchie added the church was also running low on parking spaces.  To accommodate the larger Sunday crowds, the church had begun leasing land
from its neighbors, accounting for half of the parking area.

     This, however, was a short-term deal.

     The new building, built in the style of a country church like its pre-decessor, will seat 260 people in a sanctuary on a 2.5-acre spread.  The
increased capacity will allow the church to host more weddings and funerals, as well as programs such as the national conference "Divorce-proofing Your
Marriage."  Middle River Church will be one of 12 churches in the Des Moines area to host it.  "We plan to open that to the community," Ritchie said.

     The land, donated by brother and sister Dwight and Jeanette Gibbons, will allow a $1.5 million complex to be build complete with a social hall, nursery,
library, a 50-seat balcony in the sanctuary and more classrooms and your pastor Jennifer Phillips' office in the basement.

     The basement will be connected to the main level by a staircase and an elevator.

     "We don't have to worry about the wheelchair ramps going downstairs," Ritchie said.  "There are a number of seniors who are going to appreciate this." 

     Plans include the possible installation of closed-circuit television to the outside social hall to show services to larger crowds.

     The location also will make the church more accessible to church goers, rather than having them travel one mile down gravel to Cleveland Street.  Its
position on top of a hill near Iowa Highway 5 allows it to be seen from Scotch Ridge Road.  "Everyone's making comments," Ritchie said.

     If construction continues on schedule, the new buidling will open in July.  Before then, the church will be putting the current building on sale by the end
of April.

     The new building has seen an opening of sorts already, with a service being held on Feb. 17.

     "It was the kickoff to our fund-raiser," Ritchie said.  "Over half of it are gifts."

     The fund-raising for the building has been ongoing since 1999, Ritchie said, with another three years expected after the building's completion.

Annual Report to the Friends Iowa Yearly Meeting  
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Ministry and Counsel submitted the following information to the Friends Iowa Yearly Meeting outlining some of the great things God has allowed us to do at
Middle River Evangelical Friends Church.

 1.  Welcome Home to Carlisle - We participated with several businesses and other churches in downtown Carlisle the last few years as part of the celebration.
      We did not charge for things we had to share (popcorn, hot apple cider, pencils, pads of paper, etc.)  The attached brochure titled "WORSHIP IN THE COUNTRY"
      was given out at this function and is used to send to new people in our community.

 2.  Pastor Ralph does counseling at the church with people in the community that have needs.  This has brought people into the church over the last year.

 3.  We signed up for a service to provide us a list of people that have moved into several zip code areas around our church.  We then send a letter and
      information about the church.  We have had some visitors from this program.

 4.  We have a men's group that meets at the church on Thursday mornings for breakfast and Bible study time.  This is opened up to the entire community and
      we have several churches represented.  Our thoughts are that this has had a very positive impact on families and the overall community.

 5.  Our men have been attending Promise Keeper conferences since 1994.  Each year a few more men made the pilgrimage than the year before.  These
      conferences have had a positive impact on the spiritual growth of the men of our meeting.

 6.  Our ladies have been attending Women of Faith conferences the last five years.  In addition, a Women's Legacy group meets at our church monthly.  About 1/2 of
      the women who attend are members of other churches.  These conferences have had a positive impact on the spiritual growth of the ladies of our meeting.

 7.  Ministry and Council have established 'cell groups'.  We have a M & C member who is responsible for helping shepherd people attending our meeting at MREF. 
      A letter was sent to each person attending MREF telling them they have someone they can come to for help.  This program is intended to compliment
      Pastor Ralph's ministry to the entire congregation.

 8.  Some of the men in our meeting attend the 'Cross Trainers' meeting at noon on Wednesdays in Des Moines.  This is sponsored by Gary Rosburg of America's
      Family Coaches.  This touches up to 600 men each Wednesday and gives us the boost we need by the middle of the week.

 9.  Some of our families have attended "Date with a Purpose".  This is another program sponsored by America's Family Coaches.  It emphasizes what men
      need to do to meet the needs of their wives and vice versa.  This program helps build stronger families within our meeting.

10. Pastor Ralph is the official chaplain at the Carlisle Nursing Home.  He meets the needs of many people at the nursing home and has Sunday afternoon church
      services at the nursing home every other month.

11. Pastor Ralph works with special needs group at the Carlisle High School each Friday.  Grace Sivadge, who attends MREF, is a teacher at Carlisle High School
      and oversees the special needs group.

12. Our goal has always been to be sensitive to the Holy Spirit guiding us in new ways to reach out in love to the Carlisle, Hartford and Indianola communities.
      In addition, we have several people attending MREF from Des Moines and its suburbs.  MREF's mission is to lead people into a growing relationship with
      Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

13. Our entire meeting has truly felt the touch of God's hand.  It is a very exciting time at MREF.  With the Spirit moving, as it definitely is, we are experiencing
      new families entering our doors almost weekly.  Our attendance is noticeably up over last year.

14. God has definitely been leading MREF in our mission to lead people to Christ.  About 2 years ago, we realized that our current building was not meeting the
      needs of the meeting due to our growth and also the age of the building.  A building committee was assembled to study what might be done to meet our
      needs.  God has lead this committee and the congregation through every step.  God opened many doors and has shut some doors when we began going too fast
      or tried doing things on our own.  To date, we have 70% of the funds pledged to build a new building; we have had 2 1/2 acres of land donated for the new
      building; and we have had 100% of the congregation in agreement with every step that has been taken during the building committee planning process.  We
      have had two Sunday morning services for quite some time due to the numbers of people we have attending MREF.  The new building will allow us to get back
      to one service on Sunday morning.  We tell you about this just to emphasize that God is truly in control and is helping MREF lead people in our surrounding
      communities to Christ.  We do ask for your prayers as we move ahead with our building project to better serve the people that God is allowing us to minister to.

 

Country church finds new home

 
The Middle River Friends Church has survived more than 150 years in its country church home Southeast of Carlisle.

The church is celebrating its anniversary by building a new church a mile and a half away on a well-traveled, paved highway.

"We moved out here for future generations," said the Rev. Ralph Keesler.  "Because we know that for a little country church on a gravel road the future
is rather dim. People will be able to find us now."

The parish raised about $800,000 for a larger church, to be built on Warren County Highway S23. They broke ground on the site of the 18,700-square-
foot structure Sunday. The new church will have more sanctuary space, a larger social hall and additional classrooms.

Church leaders hope the new building will solve several problems.  Parishioners now must travel a dusty, winding gravel road to get to the
current building at 1790 Cleveland St. Termites are chewing up the aging structure.  The sanctuary is too small, the youth groups meet in small
partitioned rooms in the basement or in the attic.

The Friends congregation began in 1851 with about 50 members.

Graves in the church cemetery contain the remains of Civil War veterans, and some stones bear death dates as far back as 1861. The church also served
as a stop on the Underground Railroad, which smuggled slaves to Northern states.

Church attendance fell in the late 1800's when the small meeting house fell into disrepair. The porch was falling off the building and people had trouble
entering it, according to church lore. Members began discussing a new building around 1866, but they didn't have the money to build. When they
began meeting in a nearby school-house, their numbers dwindled.

About 1890, the second Middle River Friends meeting house built on the current site. In 1911, the sanctuary members attend today was erected. An
addition was built in the 1990s.

Now the 150 members find the church building confining again.

"We have two services because we can't get everyone in on the first service," member Jeanette Gibbons said. "The church holds about 86 to 90 people and
that's crowded."

Gibbons and her brother donated land for the new church. The church will sit atop rolling hills at the edge of the valley.

"We're going to have a view off to the east and to the south," said Les Ferguson, building committee chairman. "When you come up with a gift like
that, it's awfully hard to say no."

The church cemetery, the pastor's home and a shelter with picnic benches will remain in the historic spot on Cleveland Street.

"We'll still have the best of both worlds," Kessler said. "God has blessed us."

 

Middle River Donates to Dollars for Scholars
 
On October 17th at the Middle River Friends Church men's prayer breakfast a check for $555.20 was presented to Mr. Alan Huisinga on behalf of Dollars
for Scholars.  This was the money raised at the July 4th pancake breakfast.

In an associated picture are some of the Middle River Friends Promise Keepers:  Dick Brennan, Alan Huisinga, Pastor Ralph, Carl Rice, Jim
Goodhue, Roy Gongwer, Ron VanVleet, Dan McGrail and Mark Goodhue.

 

 


 
MIDDLE RIVER CATCHES FIRE
 
The fire referred to is not the fire that first goes through your mind, but a fire not unlike the fire Elijah called down from heaven. The fire that Luke refers
to in Acts 2:3. The fire Elijah called down was a raging violent fire that cleansed the area of evil. The fire Luke experienced was a gentle loving
touch of the comforter.

Middle River Friends Church is experiencing God in exciting ways. We have started a new building project that will enable us to combine our two Sunday
morning services. Our current building holds approximately 80-90 people fairly comfortably. Our new facility will seat around 250 people. We are
currently averaging about 130 people per Sunday, with a peak of 169 people in attendance on October 8, 2000. On that Sunday morning we held a
ground-breaking service.

So we all ask? "What has happened? What's different?" Quite frankly, I think we are LETTING GOD, BE GOD. I believe it started in our Monthly
Meeting. Instead of talking about what we could do for ourselves, we started talking about what we could do for the community. For example, the last
couple of years, the city of Carlisle has held a "Come Home to Carlisle" celebration on Homecoming weekend in the fall. We decided to participate
in that, purchasing table space where the celebration was to be held. We didn't set up our tables to sell things, we gave everything away. We handed
out hot cider, orange drink, popcorn, sliced apples with caramel dip. We also made up some paper tablets with our church's picture and address on it.
We handed those out, along with pencils we purchased that also had our name and address on them.

On the 4th of July, we have a pancake breakfast for the community. We ask people for a free will offering, not for ourselves, but for the Dollars for
Scholars program here in Carlisle.

The main thing is that we are no longer maintenance minded, but vision minded.  Last year alone, we had 780 more people enter God's sanctuary for
Sunday morning service, than we had the previous year. That trend is continuing this year.

Our men have been attending a Promise Keepers Conference every year since 1994.  Our women have been attending Women of Faith Conferences since
that ministry began. Many of our youth attended last years "On The Edge" Conference sponsored by Focus On The Family. The Spiritual growth and
excitement that our congregation has experienced extends to all age groups.

God is truly blessing Middle River right now, and I believe that as long as we continue to listen to Him and praise His Holy Name, He will be in our midst.
His coming blessings are unimaginable to our finite minds.

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are my ways your ways, saith the Lord (Isaiah 55:8).

For more information about our church, both present and future, you can find us on the Internet at www.middleriverfriends.org.


 
Article by Jacque Wilbur
 

In October, I had the awesome privilege of attending the Women of Faith Conference held at Vets Auditorium in Des Moines. I went with 35 other
ladies from my church and community. However, out of the 11,000/12,000 women who were gathered at that conference, I also saw two other ladies I
knew and they are members of IALA. Wow, think about it. What are the odds of spotting only two ladies out of that many people whom you know from
outside the group you came with, and those two belong to a business association the same as yourself. Well, that got me to thinking that maybe
there was something that I could glean from the dynamic messages presented by the speakers that would be applicable to our organization.

One thought stands out in my mind: CHOICES. We all have choices to make every day, whether it is in our family life, or in our PROFESSIONAL LIFE.
What choices do you make at work each day? I can only speak for myself, and I know the choices I do make, and probably the ones I should have made.
Generally those choices have to do with how I treat those around me.  Sometimes everything is sweet and I'm on top of the world. It's easy to be
nice to clients and co-workers when things are going right. Other times when I get hit with twelve more phone calls, am buried in tons of paperwork,
and I'm feeling the pressure of mounting deadlines, my choices can go sour very fast. Ultimately I do have a choice. Following are "Ten Commandments
of Human Relations" that our firm passed out at a recent staff meeting. I have these posted on my wall. When I am tempted to make a bad choice in
dealing with people, I glance up at these and am reminded that I can made a good choice:

1. Speak to people
2. Smile at people
3. Call people by name
4. Be friendly and helpful to people
5. Be cordial
6. Be genuinely interested in other people
7. Be generous with praise and careful with criticism
8. Be considerate of the feelings of others
9. Be alert to give service
10. Have a good sense of humor

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters, compared to what lies within us."
- Oliver Wendell Holmes


 

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